KNOW & REALIZE ♥♥♥

Back to my LOVE Series write-up :)

Today's post was inspired by kylie's comment on the post entitled "At least I've tried ♥♥♥". Here is the recap of her post:-

kyliemc said..

oh well, not all girls can stand persistent guys..some will think that those kind of guys are annoying... if she can't accept love right now, why don't you be her friend first? rather than pushing her, give her some space :D give her some time to miss you..sometimes being too available for her is not a good thing...

When I first saw this comment, I was like "well, it is something that I know and I think I am striking the balance" but the next day while I was having my breakfast, this comment of hers came into my mind and the message was different this time.

This post is the toughest post I am making in this blog. So, read carefully and try to understanding where I am coming from.

KNOW is to perceive or understand as fact or truth; to apprehend clearly and with certainty and REALIZE is to grasp or understand clearly.

• You KNOW your parents love you but you don't REALIZE how much they love you.
• You KNOW you are smart but you don't REALIZE how smart you are.
• You KNOW you are gifted but you did not REALIZE about it.
  

As for relationship's case, when someone fall in love, these are the things that happens:-

• They would do anything to get the person's attention
• They would go through every way/method to get that person
  
• They turn into somebody else they themselves do not know
  
• They would do everything they "think" would make the person happy
• and the list goes on.
  

The conclusion is, they would do everything and anything that they "know" and "think" is "RIGHT" at that moment to get to its objective. Because of that kind of "mindset", sometimes they "FAILED" to "REALIZED" that what they are doing might be "WRONG".

We as a guy, especially the alpha male. We always thought we "know" and most of the time we failed to "realize".

I will elaborate this point with a common scenarios that almost all of us has been in,

When someone rejected us,

We still treat them well, sometimes even without asking anything for return. Give all, expect none.

We still keep in touch and contact them to show them that we are true.

We KNOW the reason of our action and we failed to REALIZED that the other person might not know or might not be able to accept.

YES, you know you are doing it because you want to, and wanting them to be happy, but did you realize that your good doing "might" give the opposite feeling such as; bad or perhaps sad?

To some of you, this post might sounds kinda contradicting with what I've said previously. That was because in the previous post, I am supporting everyone to give a try but in this post, i sorta said that you should give up.

This topic is very subjective and the main purpose of me making this post is to make sure everyone REALIZE this thin line between KNOW and REALIZE. You are the only one who know best about the situation.

So, make the right choice okie? KNOW what to do and REALIZE the situation :)

P.S: Thanks kylie for reminding me about the existence of this thin line between KNOW and REALIZE. :)

P.P.S: REALIZE came from the world REAL. So, be REAL, stay in REALITY. ;)