Tuesday, February 3, 2009

Love = Happyness? ♥♥♥

2 days ago, my buddy and I was having a discussion about the post I made last night which is,

1. Love can't be force. No matter what you do, things will never change

OR

2. If you showed enough sincerity, have enough faith, you "might" be able to change the fate.

As usual, I do most of the talking part as this buddy of mine is a quiet type of guy which is not so good with words but that night, he has said something that makes me think. It is something that everyone knows about it but not everybody realize about it.

He said it with his soft and slow tone,
Joey, in the end of the day, you just want the person you love to be happy right?
I kept quiet for a moment before i responded to him with a laugher,
Hahah, yeap. I guess thats all that matter. Life is short.
That short huh? :) ♥

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Love doesn't make the world go round, Love is what make the ride worthwhile

If you are unable to "receive", learn the art of "giving" and you'll find the "happyness" in it - Joey Tong, February 2, 2009

6 comments:

wAyne said...

give with no expectation, that's what i can do and say... lol

T.Y said...

another splendid post!

hats off to u again! and really those wordings were really damn nice more over they are true!

Vinspire said...

Wayne & TY: The post might be short this time, but i guess it says it all :)

Unknown said...

this part i dunt really agree liao.. love is also a bit selfish :X lol.. learn from experience.. if you just give.. ppl will just take.. i would say balance between give and take is the important part.. one cannot be giver all the time.. one cannot be taker all the time.. if it is.. its not really love anymore.. its more like donating.. i know we tend to do watever we can to make another person happy.. but i realise the "good" person is always the giver and if the other person is not that "good" they will take advantage... you can justify with watever reason you want.. its still stupid on your part.. you can give more.. but there must be some tiny return.. i dun think i can explain it nicely.. its just too complicated.. just say recently i realise in this world right now... there are more "bad" ppl than "good" ppl already.. hmm... i will say give within limit gua.. the best way to explain.. i dunno lar.. getting headache already :X lol.. wolves.. over and out :X

ColleenC said...

i truly wish to believe it's all that simple..sigh..
refering to the post..

Unknown said...

refer previous post.. like joey mentioned.. nobody said its gonna be simple.. lol.. and the famous quote.. "a journey of a thousand steps begin with one step". you need to take the first step first.. and i believe its good that its not that simple.. if not ah.. no meaning already.. if we just get what we want by wishing.. then whats the point of living.. we will only cherish if we struggle for it.. if not everything is worthless in this world... and i am sure all the "good" gals will be gone coz everybody will wish and fight with you.. lol... right or not? :X i better stop stalking joey here.. later kena marah :X