At least I've tried ♥♥♥

This post is like the sequel post for yesterday,

I am sure a lot of people would say,

Joey, it is easier to say than done.
Joey, it is easy for you to say.
Joey, the girl don't like me. How?
Joey, this ... and Joey, that.

First and foremost, nobody said it is gonna be easy right?

Let me share with you what I've did for the girl that I currently fall head over heels :)

I've met her in an event on Dec 10, 2008. It wasn't love at first sight, when I first saw her, I thought that she is a very cute looking girl and her smile is one of the prettiest smile I've seen my whole life.

I then got to know more about her through MSN Chat. She is no doubt a very nice girl that her life was ruined by a bad relationship and thought she will never love again.

The 2nd time I met her was on 18 dec 2008, We catched a movie about the forbidden love between a vampire and human, The Twilight. During the show, I took a quick look at her a few times during the movie. Her smile would definitely melt any guys who looks at it. It is so sad that such an angel like her is afraid with this beautiful thing called love.

After the movie, I realized I just could not take my mind off of her. I sms-ed and called her but the respond weren't good. So, I thought she needed some space in her life and don't wish anyone to come near her broken heart. Therefore, I've decided to give her a christmas present (as it is just around the corner)

I bought a snow globe, I bought an x'mas greeting cards, some A4 colored papers and other stationary needed for the gift I thought that it would show my sincerity. I drafted what I am gonna do and thanks to my smart idea, I end up spending 5 hrs of my life working on the customized greeting card. Anyway, i guess the 5 hrs are all worth it, at least i know that I've spent this 5 hrs doing something I've never did before to someone I had a hard crush on.

This is the quick look of my 5 hrs hardwork :P
(Click on the image for a larger version)

I gave her the gift on christmas as planned but I guess things doesn't goes as what I plan. Instead of getting a better treatment from her, I think the whole thing backfired backed at me. She treated me even colder. Well, I can't blame her. At least she is trying to be nice by rejecting me indrectly.

I tried talking to her on MSN,
I tried sms-ing her but there isn't any reply.

Jan 30, 2009 is the day I sent her my last SMS asking her if I could be her date for valentine day and she replied my that specific sms today (Feb 1, 2009) saying that she has a plan on v-day :(

Many of my friends are asking me to give up as they said "feeling can't be force, if she doesn't have a feeling for you, no matter what you did, she will never feel the same".

BUT what about those who really have fate and hopes that she/he will feel the same way one day?

Those that cross the sea and walk across the fire for the love that they dreamt for?

Those that they believed in it so much, they waited for 7 years to have them accepting them into their life? Was it miracles? Was it all because of hardwork? I guess nobody know except the god almighty :)

So, what do you believe?

1. Love can't be force. No matter what you do, things will never change

OR

2. If you showed enough sincerity, have enough faith, you'll be able to change the fate.

My answer for it is, I believe that if we put enough hardwork + spent enough time to show my sincerity. I "STILL" stand a chance to bring the fate on my side. Well, if things doesn't work out, I still get to say "At least, I've tried my best" :)

Words of the Day

For every failure, there's an alternative course of action.
You just have to find it.
When you come to a roadblock, take a detour.

Mary Kay Ash

I've written a lot for today. So, I will just end this post with this famous question that my friends always ask me, "Joey, what is love ?"

Look into the video below to find out my answer.

So, if you have the same philosophy as me that LOVE is LIFE. Just work for the LOVE you believe coz what is LIFE without LOVE aight? ♥ :)