12 Babies ♥♥♥

January : Pretty/handsome. Loves to dress up. Easily bored.
Fussy. Seldom shows emotions. Takes time to Recover when hurt. Sensitive. Down-to-Earth..

February : Abstract thoughts. Loves reality and abstract. Intelligent and clever. Changing personality. Attractive. Sexiest out of everyone. Temperamental. Quiet, shy and humble. Honest And loyal. Determined to reach goals. Loves Freedom. Rebellious when restricted. Loves Aggressiveness. Too sensitive and easily hurt. Gets angry really easily but does not show it. Dislikes unnecessary things. Loves making friends But rarely shows it. Horny. Daring and stubborn. Ambitious. Realizing dreams and hopes. Sharp. Loves entertainment and leisure. Romantic on the Inside not outside. Superstitious and ludicrous. Spendthrift. Tries to learn to show emotions.

March : Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and Reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous And sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up Feelings. Observant and assesses others.

April : Attractive personality. Sexy. Affectionate Shy and Reserved. Secretive. Naturally honest, generous And sympathetic. Loves peace and serenity. Sensitive to others. Great kisser. Easily angered. Trustworthy. Appreciative and returns kindness. Hardly shows emotions. Tends to bottle up Feelings. Observant and assesses others.

May : Stubborn and hard-hearted. Strong-willed and Highly motivated. Sharp thoughts. Easily angered. Attracts others and loves attention. Deep feelings. Beautiful physically and mentally. Firm Standpoint... Needs no motivation. Shy towards opposite sex. Easily consoled. Systematic (left brain). Loves to Dream. Strong clairvoyance.. Understanding. Sickness usually in the ear and neck. Good Imagination.. Good physical. Weak breathing. Loves Literature and the arts. Loves traveling. Dislike Being at home. Restless. Not having many children. Hardworking. High spirited. If you repost this in the

Jun : You've got the best personality and are an Absolute pleasure to be around. You love to make New friends and be outgoing. You are a great flirt And more than likely have an a very attractive Partner. A wicked hottie. It is also more than likely That you have a massive record collection. You Have a great choice in films, and may one day Become a famous actor/actress yourself - heck, You've got the looks for it!!!

July : Fun to be with. Secretive. Difficult to fathom and to Be understood. Quiet unless excited or tensed. Takes pride in oneself. Has reputation. Easily Consoled. Honest. Concerned about people's Feelings. Tactful. Friendly. Approachable. Emotional temperamental and unpredictable. Easily hurt. Witty and sparkly. Spazzy at times. Not revengeful. Forgiving but never forgets. Dislikes nonsensical and unnecessary things. Guides others physically and mentally. Sensitive And forms impressions carefully. Caring and Loving. Treats others equally. Strong sense of Sympathy. Wary and sharp. Judges people Through observations Hardworking. No difficulties In studying. Loves to be with friends Always broods About the past and the old friends. Waits for Friends. Never looks for friends. Not aggressive Unless provoked. Loves to be loved. Easily hurt But takes long to recover.

August : Outgoing personality. Takes risks. Feeds on attention. Kind hearted. self confident. . VERY revengeful. Easy to get along with and talk to. Likes talking Loves music. Daydreamer. Hates not being trusted. BIG imagination. Loves to be loved. In need of 'that someone'. Longs for freedom. rebellious when withheld or Restricted. Lives by 'no pain no gain'. Caring. Playful. Mysterious. 'Charming' or 'beautiful' to everyone. Stubborn. Curious. Independent. Strong willed. A fighter.

September : Active and dynamic. Decisive and haste but tends to regret. Attractive and affectionate to oneself. Strong mentality. Loves attention. Diplomatic. Consoling, friendly and solves people's problems. Brave and fearless. Adventurous. Loving and caring. Suave and generous. Usually you have many friends. Enjoys making love. Emotional Stubborn. Hasty. Good memory. Moving, motivates oneself and others Loves to travel and explore. Sometimes sexy in a way that only their lover can understand.

October : Loves to chat. Loves those who love them. Loves to takes things at the centre. Inner and physical beauty. Lies but doesn't pretend. Gets angry often. Treats friends importantly. Brave and fearless. Always making friends. Easily hurt but recovers easily. Daydreamer. Opinionated... Does not care to control emotions. Unpredictable... Extremely smart, but definitely the hottest AND sexiest of them all.

November : Trustworthy and loyal. Very passionate and dangerous. Wild at times. Knows how to have fun. Sexy and mysterious Everyone is drawn towards your inner and outer beauty and independent personality. Playful, but secretive. Very emotional and temperamental sometimes. Meets new people easily and very social in a group. Fearless and independent. Can hold their own. Stands out in a crowd. Essentially very smart. Usually, the greatest men are born in this month. If you ever begin a relationship with someone from this month, hold on to them because their one of a kind.

December : This straight-up means your the most good-looking person possible... better than all of these other months! Loyal and generous.. Patriotic. Competitive in everything. Active in games and interactions.. Impatient and hasty. Ambitious. Influential in organizations. Fun to be with. Easy to talk to, though hard to understand. Thinks far with vision, yet complicated to know. Easily influenced by kindness. Polite and soft-spoken. Having lots of ideas. Sensitive. Active mind. Hesitating, tends to delay... Choosy and always wants the best. Temperamental. Funny and humorous. Loves to joke. Good debating skills. Has that someone always on his/her mind. Talkative. Daydreamer. Friendly. Knows how to make friends. Abiding. Able to show character. One guy/girl kind of person . Loveable. Easily hurt. Prone to getting colds. loves music.

Moments in Life ♥♥♥

There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real!

When the door of happiness closes, another opens; But often times we look so long at the Closed door that we don't see the one, Which has been opened for us

Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth; even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile, Because it takes only a smile to Make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smile.

Dream what you want to dream; Go where you want to go; Be what you want to be, Because you have only one life And one chance to do all the things You want to do.

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet Enough trials to make you strong, Enough sorrow to keep you human and Enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily Have the best of everything; They just make the most of Everything that comes along their way.

The brightest future will always Be based on a forgotten past; You can't go forward in life until You let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying And everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so at the end, You're the one who is smiling and everyone Around you is crying.

appreciate those people Who mean something to you; To those who have touched your life in one way or another; To those who make you smile when you really need it; To those who make you see the Brighter side of things when you are really down; To those whose friendship you appreciate; To those who are so meaningful in your life.

This is THE MOMENTS IN OUR LIFE.



This is a very old pic (4 yrs ago?). See, I smile like a donkey :)

And oh ... the entry above is also another article I got from my forwarded mail :P

Tired of Life -♥♥♥

Have you ever felt tired of life?

This is what I felt at the current moment.

February 2009 is definitely one of the my worst month that I can remember.

1. I had a misunderstanding which lead to an argument with one of my buddy, things has never been the same since then. It is heartbreaking cause from my point of view, the cause to this not even an issue at the first place. Perhaps I was wrong ...
   
   
2. I've gotten into few more arguments with few of my other close friends which I think it weren't my fault to begin with. It is just them being emotional and all due to their work stress or perhaps relationship problem.
   
   
3. The girl that I had a hard crush on. I've pursued every ways that I could think of to at least get close to her, but failed. I didn't even celebrate valentine day (cause I am being stubborn, I just want to celebrate it with her). Its like the more i tried, the further it went. You know what Miss C? I am tired and I am giving up d. Its almost 60 days since X'Mas. I will just accept the fact that I am just another ordinary bee that got into ur life and I am gonna move on now alrite?
   
   
4. I've given up in changing someone's thought about me too. I don't know why she hated me so much (she might not, but that is what she makes me feel). I think I've tried my best to improve our relationship from enemy to at least "friend" ? I even said sorry for something I think I am not on the wrong but yet, her perspective about me did not change. *Sigh*
   
   
5. My work, 1 of the project that I am handling is on a pending mode (as the client insist to co-operate). Hence, the payment is frozen too. I've taken every steps to make sure that the job move but failed.
   
   
6. Another close friend of mine makes me feel that I am neglected. The reason was because he sorta found a girl of his life and he is trying hard to pursue for her until I felt that I am invisible. I understand that when one fall in love, they somehow turn blind but emm ... but being totally blind is another issue.
   
   
7. I've just gotten into another miscommunication with another close friend of mine today. Its nothing. He asked me to meet up with this guy in Wangsa Maju to take something but I resisted not to coz it is way off my area. +I've always help this close friends of mine. I even drove down to LCCT on the same day twice for him. Its just that, I am too tired doing thing that is off my limit for this friend of mine all the time.
   

To top up all of the above, all my family members are out of town. Hence, I am the only one at home. Being home alone isn't fun as I thought it would be.

Being home alone without any other family members;
Being single and not receiving love in return;
Being in KL-PJ without close friends that I use to hang out with;
and
Being stuck in a work that I couldn't find a solution;

Has resulted

to having my meals alone sometimes;
watching DVDs alone almost every night;
and looking blankly on my monitor screen.

♥ Song of the Day ♥

Yeap, I am walking away ... I am walking away from all the troubles in my life as I am really really tired.

After being through all these, I've made up my mind to "disappear". I am going for my backpacking cum business journey that I've longed for. I am starting my journey earliest this coming tuesday, March 3, 2009 OR next weekend March 6, 2009.

The route would be,

KL-PJ -> Kelantan -> Perhentian Island -> Penang -> Hatyai -> Koh Samui -> Bangkok

I might go Krabi, Phuket and Chiangmai IF situation/my finance allow :D

How long would I disappear?

A month or 2 mths maybe? Depending on my budget :P

Anyway, not to worry, you can still reach me in facebook, my blog or email me :)

How can I be Mr. Sunshine that would bring smiles and laughter to my surrounding IF I myself couldn't even smile aight?

Taking a break from my current LIFE is what I need. Need to take a break to fix this broken heart.

Love all of you and always will ♥

What is The Price of a Miracle? ♥♥♥

What is The Price of a Miracle?

Tess went to her bedroom and pulled a glass jelly jar from its hiding place in the closet. She poured all the change out on the floor and counted it carefully. She then slipped out the back door and made her way to the local drug store.

She waited patiently for the pharmacist to give her some attention but he was too busy at this moment. Tess twisted her feet to make a scuffing noise. Nothing. She cleared her throat with the most disgusting sound she could muster. No good. Finally she took a quarter from her jar and banged it on the glass counter. That did it!

"And what do you want?" the pharmacist asked in an annoyed tone of voice. "I'm talking to my brother from Chicago whom I haven't seen in ages," he said without waiting for a reply to his question. "Well, I want to talk to you about my brother," Tess answered back in the same annoyed tone. "He's really, really sick...and I want to buy a miracle." "I beg your pardon?" said the pharmacist. "His name is Andrew and he has something bad growing inside his head and my Daddy says only a miracle can save him now. So how much does a miracle cost?"

"We don't sell miracles here, little girl. I'm sorry but I can't help you," the pharmacist said, softening a little. "Listen, I have the money ! to pay for it. If it isn't enough, I will get the rest. Just tell me how much it costs." The pharmacist's brother was a well dressed man. He stooped down and asked the little girl, "What kind of a miracle does your brother need?"

"I don't know," Tess replied with her eyes welling up. "I just know he's really sick and Mommy says he needs an operation. But my Daddy can't pay for it, so I want to use my money". "How much do you have?" asked the man from Chicago. "One dollar and eleven cents," Tess answered barely audibly. "And it's all the money I have, but I can get some more if I need to."

"Well, what a coincidence," smiled the man. "A dollar and eleven cents - the exact price of a miracle for little brothers."

He took her money in one hand and with the other hand he grasped her mitten and said, "Take me to where you live. I want to see your brother and meet your parents. Let's see if I have the kind of miracle you need." That well dressed man was a surgeon, specializing in neuro-surgery. The operation was completed without charge and it wasn't long until Andrew was home again and doing well. Mom and Dad were happily talking about the chain of events that had led them to this place. "That surgery," her Mom whispered, "was a real miracle. I wonder how much it would have cost?

Tess smiled. She knew exactly how much a miracle cost...one dollar and eleven cents...plus the faith of a little child. A miracle is not the suspension of natural law, but the operation of a higher law...

This is to remind us that miracles happen every day, to each one of us. We just have to keep our eyes open and press on because, who knows, we may just be at the brink of a miracle!

Got it from 1 of the forwarded mail :) ♥

Failed to do daily blog -♥

Hi Hi,

I've failed to blog the past 3 days. Finally, my daily blog spree has come to an end :P

I would like to apologize for those who followed my blog. The reason that I failed to blog the past 3 days was because for the following:-

• Friends: Busy with weekend outing with friends.
  I celebrated friendship day again :D ♥
  
  
• Work: I have a project that I need to complete by this month.
  So, sorta rushing the dateline.
  
  
• Home: Have to move my thing to the new room that I've rented and organize it.
  Oh gosh, I keep lotsa rubbish.
  
  
• Leisure: Been spending some of my time watching DVDs.
  

So, this would be all for today. Seeyah tomorrow :)

Got GF or No GF better leh? ♥♥♥ :P

I was chatting with a net friend of mine a day after valentine day. He told me that I should feel lucky because I am still single cause his valentine day turn out to be quite .... emmm .... unexpectable? :P

Why?

Here is the screenshot of our MSN conversation :P

I know you guys hate this but please click on the image for the enlarged version of the screenshots. Thanks :)


So, what say you? Got GF or No GF better? :P

11-2 My Friendship Day ♥♥♥

♥Friendship - What does this word mean to you?

Here are some friendship quotes that I would like to share,

The only way to have a friend is to be one - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Friends are the sunshine of life - John Hay

Who finds a faithful friend, finds a treasure - Jewish Saying

With those quotes, I've learn to become a friend as they are the sunshine of my life and I treasured each and everyone of them.

Last wednesday, February 11, 2009. I called some of my close buddies from Kokorobox.Net out for a get-together outing. Most of us has known each others for 2 to 3 yrs. Within that period, our friendship has grown to an extend that I took them like a part of my life.

The gathering was held in this restaurant called Kopi Oh! (located on the ground floor), Cineleisure D'sara.

Without further ado, I shall now show you pictures we took the on that day :)

Myself with Ricky a.k.a Devince



Myself and Cody a.k.a Karipop



Rocky a.k.a Pocki-Pang & Myself

Myself, Ah Wai & Ricky



Myself, Estee a.k.a Ms Bulat & Rocky a.k.a Pocki-Pang



And group picture for da' guys :)

We catch a movie, Bride WARS after having our dinner. It is a good pick for our Friendship Day as the movie highlighted the importance of friendship :)

Janice (our new friend) couldn't make it to join us for dinner but she could make it for the movie,

And this is our reaction when we saw her walking towards us :P

Myself and Janice

Group photo after the movie ~♥

Guess who is missing in this picture? He is also the camera-man for this picture :D

Don't know the answer? Maybe you could refer to this picture then? :P

Finally, I would like to tell all my friends (You know yourself) that I love You and May Our Friendship last 4eva aight? :)

My Valentine 09 ♥♥♥

Boo boo ang-gugu ~!!! Woolah .... Today's post is about what I did this valentine ... *Smiles*

As I mentioned on few post earlier, I celebrated my valentine day with my house mates (we organized a potluck housewarming party). Valentine Day couldn't be more awesome than this :D

House mates + house mates' friends + potluck + singles + valentine day = randomness

I shall now present to you, the "peektures" of the night :D

Lets start it off with some decent photos 1st aight? :)

From left: Cody a.k.a Mr. Karipop, Ricky a.k.a Devince, My housemate - Sze Mei, Estee a.k.a Ms Bulat, Me and Kelvin a.k.a Bling

From left: Cherrie a.k.a Ms. Shrimp, Eu Jynn a.k.a Papa Bear (Ms Shrimp BF) and Eelyn a.k.a Double E (NOT those fellas behind wokay?)

From left: Kelvin a.k.a Bling, Ms. Ong da' Rockstar, Estee a.k.a Ms. Bulat, Myself and Cody a.k.a Mr. Karipop

From left: Myself, Estee a.k.a Ms. Bulat and Ms. Ong da' Rockstar

Myself and Pam Song

We also took the chance to celebrate Ms. Cherrie Shrimp on that day, HAPPY BIRTHDAY MAMA BEAR :D ♥

And now is the "NOT-SO" decent peektures ...

1st Series: The Queen of Beer & Sweet da' Joker

Michelle with da' beer vacuum & me da' underage kid that can't have beer ... So, I have to just stick with my "sweet" ♥

And this is what happened to both of us after that ...

2nd Series: Me, Myself and J.Co Donuts

Ohhh .... My precious ~♥

Myself and James eating the donut "passionately" ... ♥

3rd Series: Me & Sparkling Juice's Cover

My New Bluetooth... Hello, Hello ... 1 2 ... Smile :D

Joey and James da' Metal Nose Raindeers?

and this is with Ms. Shrimp :D

This is I don't know what happened mia peekture ....

Close-up shot

And the CUTEST peekture award goes to ....

Drum rolls ...

jeng
jeng
jeng
jeng
jeng
jeng
jeng
.......
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jeng jeng

CUTE ma? :P Leave some comments la dey ~~♥

Finally, I hope this entry makes you SMILE :)

♥ With Love, Joey a.k.a Vinspire a.k.a Mr. Ahboochak ♥

Happily Tired ♥♥♥

Recently Bulat a.k.a Estee, da' founder of Bodo-gang and also 1 of my closest friend asked me this question:-

Joey, don't you feel tired being hyper and happy all the time?

My answer to her is,

I do feel tired being hyper but am not tired being happy, how can one have enough of happyness? I get even happier when I make the people surrounding me happy, coz by making them happy + seeing them happy, this is what I feel ...

Anyway, being just an ordinary human there are time when I feel tired ...

I feel tired when things doesn't goes my way no matter how hard I tried,
I feel tired when people judge me for somebody that I am not,
I feel tired when I've put a lot of efforts with good intention and I am not appreciated,

And I feel really tired when sad bug bite me.
But no matter tired I am, I am never tired of being happy and make my friends happy

Finally, when I was too tired .... I break down and cry in a place no one could see me; coz I hate people seeing my ugly crying face.

Song of the Day



Random picture is needed to complete this post ...

I miss YOU ♥♥♥

This is the 5th scroll that I've made for her as an X'Mas Gift ...

The date on the scroll stated until 22/12/2008 but I am in this condition and feeling this way until now. The last time I met her was on X'Mas day where I handed her the gifts.

Miss C, I Miss You .... ♥♥♥

The Day After V-Day :) ♥

Yo yo yo wazzup ?? :P LOL ... Its da' day after v-day !!! Hows your v-day celebration / date? Was it good? I hope so ♥♥♥

NOW I will talk about how I spend my Valentine Day (It is sorta like Frequently Asked Question for me yesterday and today)

Because I wanted to go on a date with HER only + she rejected my date offer for this v-day = I did not celebrate valentine day BUT that doesn't mean I couldn't have any other plan aight? :)

I joined a pot-luck house warming party organized by house mates and the party turn out to be much more enjoying than what I've expected :D Thanks to Miss Sexay Chan for organizing such a great event ♥♥♥ I've also changed my thought about Miss Sexay Chan from a serious headmistress to Miss Good Cook d thou. Well, I guess that is a "tiny" good little improvement aight? :)

As for my readers, I would post up the pictures in the near future (All the pictures are wif Ms. Bulat)

Since valentine is over edy, I will reduce my writing about ♥LOVe and start mixing it with the other blog elements in this blog, which is ♥Friendship & ♥Memories.

I would start of an introduction of the other elements with this short little story I've read a while back.

♥LOVe & ♥Friendship is a good buddies.

On this one fine day, both of them went hang-kaikai in ...

walk walk walk...

and ♥LOVe felt into the well,

WHY?

Because ♥LOVe is blind :)

Due to the incident, ♥Friendship jump into the well following ♥LOVe

WHY?

Because ♥Friendship can't live without ♥LOVe.

Quote of the Day

"However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship."
- La Rochefoucauld (1665)

Random Pic of the Day
(excuse me for the quality & size of this pic ya? Haven't got the original file from Bulat)



Comic Strip of the Day

My Confession 2 YOU ♥♥♥

*Yawn* *Blink Blink Mah Eyes* *Sigh*

Waking up in the morning on valentine day knowing that you didn't have the one for you yet could be quite .... emmm .... empty?

I sms-ed her Happy V-Day last night and she wishes me back in return. That is enough to make me happy, it is nothing much; but its more than enough for me at the current moment ♥

When I saw her sms this morning, it makes me feel like telling her how much I miss her, want her and love her; but that would make her feel uncomfy. Therefore, I've decided to make my confession here, on my blog (hoping she would read it) *pray*

Dear "YOU",

I know why I fall for you but I did not know why I fall so hard on you,
I don't know if this is love, or it was just a crush, but I know that you are a girl who I would want to spend my life with,
I want you to know that I miss you loads, wanting to have you in my life and given a chance to show you my love.

You told me you have other plan today when I asked you if i could be your date on v-day, if its a date then I wish you a great v-day date,
If the person you are going out with is a person you love, I hope he would feel the same way too,
I might not know you well enough but you seems to still live in the past that leave a scar in your life,
I would be more than happy if you could fall in love again, even if the lucky guy is not me :) (I wish it was me thou :P)
And I hope that lucky guy would know how lucky he is and appreciate you the way I would.

To "YOU", I want you to know that I love you, Je t'aime, Ti Amo, Sarang haeyo, Aishiteru and the list goes on.

Comic Strip of the day

Quote of the day

Love is just a word until you meet someone that gives it a meaning ♥

Finally, I shall end this entry with my favourite song MV :) ♥

V-Day 143 ♥♥♥

Today is D-Day ... Opsss ... I mean V-Day ...

V-Day is Vinny (Vinspire's) Day !!! Eh ... NO !!! Emm ... Was it Vanilla Day? Violet Day? OR Vitagen Day? :P Haha ... Silly me ... V-Day is Valentine Day of coz. Right ??? :P

The day that is longed waited by a lot of us :)

First and foremost, I would like to wish everyone a Happy Valentine Day ? May you have a great valentine day this yr ... :)

I hope you would meet the person that you long awaited ... The one that is made for you from the god above, you for him and he is for you, she is your girl and you are her man, no one else in this world would do :) ???

For those who are getting married on this special, congratulations and the best of luck to you and your love ones.

Here are the recap of write-ups I've made about LOVe:-

Top hit reading:-

• LOVe Potion No. 9 ♥♥♥
• Create your own fate ♥♥♥
• At least I've tried ♥♥♥
• Love = Happyness? ♥♥♥
• Love Hurt -♥♥♥

Other recommended reading

• KNOW & REALIZE ♥♥♥
• Love & Memories ♥♥♥
• LOVE Abuse -♥♥♥
• HATRED -♥♥♥

Finally, I shall end this entry with my favourite poem

If you love someone tell them,
don't wait or else you will lose the chance.
To try is to risk failure,
but risk must be taken,
because the greatest hazard in life is to risk nothing.
Don't marry a person you can live with,
marry somebody you can't live without.
Love is like standing in the wet cement,
the longer you stay,
the harder it is to leave,
and you can never go without leaving your shoes behind.
The perfect marriage begins when each partner believes they got better than they deserve.
Kindness in words creates confidence,
kindness in thinking creates profoundness,
kindness in giving creates love.

I Love You ♥; and "again", I would like to wish everyone a great valentine-day.

xoxo,
♥♥♥ Joey T - 14 Feb 2009 ♥♥♥

Baby-faced boy is father at 13

Woah ... I am having a really busy day today. Therefore, I don't really have time to write about my sharing. Anyway, I have this interesting news / article to share with all of you though. :D

BOY dad Alfie Patten yesterday admitted he does not know how much nappies cost — but said: “I think it’s a lot.”

Baby-faced Alfie, who is 13 but looks more like eight, became a father four days ago when his girlfriend Chantelle Steadman gave birth to 7lb 3oz Maisie Roxanne.

He told how he and Chantelle, 15, decided against an abortion after discovering she was pregnant.

The shy lad, whose voice has not yet broken, said: “I thought it would be good to have a baby.

“I didn’t think about how we would afford it. I don’t really get pocket money. My dad sometimes gives me £10.”

Little family ... Alfie, Chantelle and baby Maisie

Lee Thompson

Alfie, who is just 4ft tall, added: “When my mum found out, I thought I was going to get in trouble. We wanted to have the baby but were worried how people would react.

“I didn’t know what it would be like to be a dad. I will be good, though, and care for it.”

Alfie’s dad Dennis told how the lad does not really understand the enormity of his situation — but seemed desperate to be a devoted and responsible father.

Secret

He wanted to be the first to hold Maisie after the hospital birth. He tenderly kisses the baby and gives her a bottle.

And Dennis, 45, said: “He could have shrugged his shoulders and sat at home on his Playstation. But he has been at the hospital every day.”

Maisie was conceived after Chantelle and Alfie — just 12 at the time — had a single night of unprotected sex.

They found out about the baby when Chantelle was 12 weeks pregnant.

But they kept it a secret until six weeks later when Chantelle’s mum Penny, 38, became suspicious about her weight gain and confronted her.

Devoted ... Alfie holds and cuddles Maisie

Lee Thompson

After that Alfie’s family told only those closest to them for fear he would be “demonised” at school.

Chantelle gave birth to Maisie on Monday night after a five-hour labour at Eastbourne Hospital, East Sussex.

Last night she told The Sun: “I’m tired after the birth. I was nervous after going into labour but otherwise I was quite excited.”

Chantelle told how she discovered she was expecting after going to her GP with “really bad” stomach pains. She said: “Me and Alfie went. The doctor asked me whether we had sex. I said yes and he said I should do a pregnancy test. He did the test and said I was pregnant. I started crying and didn’t know what to do.

“He said I should tell my mum but I was too scared.

“We didn’t think we would need help from our parents. You don’t really think about that when you find out you are pregnant. You just think your parents will kill you.”

But Penny figured out what was going on after buying Chantelle a T-shirt which revealed her swelling tum.

Chantelle admitted she and Alfie — who are both being supported by their parents — would be accused of being grossly irresponsible. She said: “We know we made a mistake but I wouldn’t change it now. We will be good loving parents.

“I have started a church course and I am going to do work experience helping other young mums.

“I’ll be a great mum and Alfie will be a great dad.”

Caring ... Alfie bottle feeds his little daughter

Lee Thompson

Chantelle and Maisie were released from hospital yesterday. They are living with Penny, Chantelle’s jobless dad Steve, 43, and her five brothers in a rented council house in Eastbourne. The family live on benefits. Alfie, who lives on an estate across town with mum Nicola, 43, spends most of his time at the Steadmans’ house.

He is allowed to stay overnight and even has a school uniform there so he can go straight to his classes in the morning.

Alfie’s dad, who is separated from Nicola, believes the lad is scared deep down.

He said: “Everyone is telling him things and it’s going round in his head. It hasn’t really dawned on him. He hasn’t got a clue of what the baby means and can’t explain how he feels. All he knows is mum and dad will help.

“When you mention money his eyes look away. And she is reliant on her mum and dad. It’s crazy. They have no idea what lies ahead.”

Dennis, who works for a vehicle recovery firm, described Alfie as “a typical 13-year-old boy”.

He said: “He loves computer games, boxing and Manchester United.” Dennis, who has fathered nine kids, told how he was “gobsmacked” when he discovered Alfie was to be a dad, too.

He said: “When I spoke to him he started crying. He said it was the first time he’d had sex, that he didn’t know what he was doing and of the complications that could come.

“I will talk to him again and it will be the birds and the bees talk. Some may say it’s too late but he needs to understand so there is not another baby.”

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Love & Memories ♥♥♥

Markus Chung Yau Ng .... Who is this fella?

I don't know him, I've never met him, I've never even heard about his name before and to tell you frankly, i don't think I even bother who he is UNTIL the day that he left ...

Markus Chung Yau Ng OR also known as Markus Ng born in year 1985 and passed away suddenly in his sleep on February 04, 2009 at the age of 23.

Why would I write about this guy when I don't even know him?

The answer is simple, after bumping into few blogs that wrote about him; it leads me to his memorial site - http://markusng.memory-of.com/. That triggered my curiousity of what is so great about this young guy. I start reading up on what his friends said about him on their blogs; and also the memorial site tributed to him, I've then realized that he is a special person who touches the heart of those who know him OR those who didn't know him, such as myself.

Markus' story reminded me of a friend of mine which shared the same fate, Alfred Alfie. If I am not mistaken, he past away back in 2005. He is a very nice guy and well loved by all his friend. Bro, I am sorry I could not make it to your funeral but you are always in my mind, I hope you are doing well up there. Just FYI, things would never be the same after you've left. For Markus and Alfie, may both of you rest in peace, you are always in our heart and we will always remember you.

To Markus' friends, relatives etc, my great condolense to the big lost, I feel you :) I am sure all of us wish he is still alive right?

Sometimes I find it "funny" that god just have to take all these good people back in his arm instead of all those bad people who ruined people's life such as robbers, thiefs, rapist etc.

No matter what it is, this story has ensured me that "life is short", the only thing that stay on once you left is only memories. How you want to be remembered, it is all on your doing.

This is my 24th post on this blog (23th day blogging), after all the sharing that I've made and story about Markus, I've made up my mind that I would blog to share my thought on why i think that "life is good" and "love is beautiful". Blog traffics is no longer my concern, my main purpose on this blog now is to shared as much thought I had in life that might benefit/change the life of others to a better life.

Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile. - Albert Einstein.

If you like/dislike the direction of my blog,
If you like/dislike what I posted,
Please leave your opinion/feedback in my comment box for further sharing.

If you wish to share your story with others and you think it deserve its own post, do feel free to email me at Ahboochak@gmail.com. If i find it worth sharing, I will post it up k? ♥

Valentine Day is 2 days away, advice for those who failed to get a date on that day,

STOP WHINING and COMPLAINING, perhaps your time has not come. So, maybe you should take this opportunity to spend time with your single friends. Friendship love is also love you know?

Be a good boy and good girl, listen to Ahboochak and take the chance on this valentine to tell the people you love that you love them right? :)

LOVE Abuse -♥♥♥

3 more days and its v-day, I hope most of you has gotten a date and plan-out what you wish to do with your date on that day :)

I believe I've written and share enough with the singles. So, I think it is time for me to talk about the couples, this sharing would be focusing more on the guys.

*** WARNING ***
This is a sensitive entry, it might make you feel DEPRESS.
Therefore, read at your own risk. I am not responsible on any damaged done due to this entry is none of my responsibility aight? :)
*** WARNING ***

I've read about this topic titled BF an abuser, written by yvonne foong in Yellow Post, 2 yrs ago. The story is about BF being abusive, not physically BUT Emotionally. :)

The story summary is something like this:-

The BF controlled her life by setting curfew; stopping her from making friends with guy; reserved the weekend for him; and sometimes making her as his anger releasing sand-bag.

Abusive relationships are characterized by extreme jealousy, emotional withholding, lack of intimacy, raging, sexual coercion, infidelity, verbal abuse, threats, lies, broken promises, physical violence, power plays and control games.

For those who is interested to find out more about this topic, you could google it up OR try reading up this page -> http://www.recovery-man.com/abusive/abusive.htm

The reason why I am highlighting this topic is because, 7 out of 10 man that I've known, has a man ego that will lead them to be a mental abuser in a relationship. I myself admit that I used to one of them, and I think this attitude is one of the main cause the failure of that relationship of mine.

One of the most common mental abuse tactic used by men is "silent treatment". Men also think they are right and expect the girls they love to read their mind or hearts BUT the truth is, how do you expect anyone to know why you are angry dude? Its even worst when you decided not to listen and not giving them a chance to even explain.

Emotional Abuse is as damaging as physical abuse, though it is often harder to recognize, and therefore to recover from. Emotional abuse causes long term self esteem issues and profound emotional repercussions for the partners of abusers. Abuse typically alternates with declarations of love and statements that they will change, providing a "hook" to keep the partner in the relationship.

Writing this entry is really depressing for me but I hope it would help a lot of people (especially guys) to realized if you are facing such problem or not. If you do, please take the chance to fix-it this valentine day aight? If you love her, why would you want to hurt her?

This entry is also applicable for girls.

If you love that person, treasure them - Joey T (11 Feb 2009) ♥♥♥

P/S: I am sorry if this post make you feel depress, I myself feel the pressure and depression. Its the sad truth that I know a lot of people hate to realize, but with this post, I hope I could make them realize and change it to happy result :)