Ahboochak's Life-Update ♥♥♥

If you read my earlier post (Refer to: Ahboochak Journey V2. ♥), you should know that I'm no longer station in KL. March 09 has been a really busy month for me. Travelling up-down KL-Kelantan-Penang-Kelantan is kinda exhausting but it is all worthwhile. My business is going as planned. In fact, it was much better than what I expected.

I am sure some of you are wondering what I am doing at the current moment right?

I just registered a web design + PR company called Vinspire Innovation last september and I have few inquiries from Kelantan. Hence, I have to be here in Kelantan to make sure that the deals work out. I've just completed a project for one of my client, you can take a look at www.spicedivers.net for more info.

Currently Vinspire Innovation progress / works & activities are as following:-

• 3 on-going projects
• Submitted 5 quotations on March 09 and 2 quotations this April 09
• I'm expecting to get another 3 to 4 more projects this month
  

So, yeah ... I think its not bad for a newly registered company right? Anyway, if you could do website like www.spicediver.net, email me at Joey@vinspire.net. I am currently looking to outsource some of my projects :)

2. I am also working on an e-commerce website of my own right now. Scheduled to launch it on May 09. Will announce it on my blog once the site is completed alrite? :)

3. I am currently working on a business proposal. I'm sorta 90% confirm to be the person who manage this project / business. Anyhow, I still need to go through the procedure by presenting the business proposal to my sponsor's board of director. The date of this proposal is on 24 April 2009. Help me pray that I got it alright? :)

So, basically I am like doing 3 jobs in 1 go huh? :P If the 3rd business project is approved, my this business is expected to open shop this August 09 :) Typing all these out makes me feel that I am doing quite a lot of things in 1 go and it is definitely a lot of thing to manage for a soon-to-turn 27 guy. Oh well, Have to work hard while we can rite? :)

Finally, here come my May 09 travel timetable / schedule:-

CONFIRM PLAN

(First Session)
1 May - Would be driving from KL to Bidor, then Bidor to Cameron and from Cameron to Kota Bharu, Kelantan
2 to 3 May - In Perhentian Island
4 May - Perhentian to Kota Bharu, Kelantan
5 May - Drive back to KL from Kota Bharu, Kelantan

(Second Session)
15 to 18 May - Koh Samui, Thailand

UN-Confirm PLAN
6 to 14 May - Might be in KL for few days then took bus down to Hatyai, then Bangkok
After 18 May - Need to arrange a visit to Bangkok, Ayuthaya and maybe Chiangmai

Hmm ... Another busy month ahead. What to do, wanna earn a living right?

*Sigh* How I wish I could get some TLC from Miss C ♥

She is my Cryptonite -♥♥♥

Hola ! I'm bloggin' today ! :P Been MIA from blog for a while coz I'm so da' occupied with work.

Anyway, to be frank wif all-of-ya, the reason am blogging today was because I'm now chatting back with Miss C :) After I gave her the X'Mas gift (Refer to: At least I've tried ♥♥♥), we didn't really talk ... well, I sms here, tarak reply. I msg her on MSN, also tarak reply, heh :P

For those who know me personally, I'm sure all of you know that am a guy who has control over myself but you know what? am still nervous whenever I chat with Miss C on MSN :(

If I were to distribe mahself & Miss C then it would be that "I am superman and she is my cryptonite" (I know it is spelled as Kryptonite, need not correct me. I purposely spell it this way)

*Sigh* It's been a while since am "love sick" like this and being a practical kinda guy like me, I think this is like the 1st time in my life that I actually make up my mind to wait for a girl who might not even give me a chance to get to know her better. I've been waiting for more than 100 days now (counting from the day I told her how I feel). Time flies huh? That also mean that I did not see her for more than 100 days d.

My feeling to her right now is like kena AIDS like that, once infected, there isn't any cure (except miracle happen, where-by she gave me a chance)

Thats all for now.

With Love,
Ahboochak ♥

Happily Tired ♥♥♥

Recently Bulat a.k.a Estee, da' founder of Bodo-gang and also 1 of my closest friend asked me this question:-

Joey, don't you feel tired being hyper and happy all the time?

My answer to her is,

I do feel tired being hyper but am not tired being happy, how can one have enough of happyness? I get even happier when I make the people surrounding me happy, coz by making them happy + seeing them happy, this is what I feel ...

Anyway, being just an ordinary human there are time when I feel tired ...

I feel tired when things doesn't goes my way no matter how hard I tried,
I feel tired when people judge me for somebody that I am not,
I feel tired when I've put a lot of efforts with good intention and I am not appreciated,

And I feel really tired when sad bug bite me.
But no matter tired I am, I am never tired of being happy and make my friends happy

Finally, when I was too tired .... I break down and cry in a place no one could see me; coz I hate people seeing my ugly crying face.

Song of the Day



Random picture is needed to complete this post ...

I miss YOU ♥♥♥

This is the 5th scroll that I've made for her as an X'Mas Gift ...

The date on the scroll stated until 22/12/2008 but I am in this condition and feeling this way until now. The last time I met her was on X'Mas day where I handed her the gifts.

Miss C, I Miss You .... ♥♥♥

The Day After V-Day :) ♥

Yo yo yo wazzup ?? :P LOL ... Its da' day after v-day !!! Hows your v-day celebration / date? Was it good? I hope so ♥♥♥

NOW I will talk about how I spend my Valentine Day (It is sorta like Frequently Asked Question for me yesterday and today)

Because I wanted to go on a date with HER only + she rejected my date offer for this v-day = I did not celebrate valentine day BUT that doesn't mean I couldn't have any other plan aight? :)

I joined a pot-luck house warming party organized by house mates and the party turn out to be much more enjoying than what I've expected :D Thanks to Miss Sexay Chan for organizing such a great event ♥♥♥ I've also changed my thought about Miss Sexay Chan from a serious headmistress to Miss Good Cook d thou. Well, I guess that is a "tiny" good little improvement aight? :)

As for my readers, I would post up the pictures in the near future (All the pictures are wif Ms. Bulat)

Since valentine is over edy, I will reduce my writing about ♥LOVe and start mixing it with the other blog elements in this blog, which is ♥Friendship & ♥Memories.

I would start of an introduction of the other elements with this short little story I've read a while back.

♥LOVe & ♥Friendship is a good buddies.

On this one fine day, both of them went hang-kaikai in ...

walk walk walk...

and ♥LOVe felt into the well,

WHY?

Because ♥LOVe is blind :)

Due to the incident, ♥Friendship jump into the well following ♥LOVe

WHY?

Because ♥Friendship can't live without ♥LOVe.

Quote of the Day

"However rare true love may be, it is less so than true friendship."
- La Rochefoucauld (1665)

Random Pic of the Day
(excuse me for the quality & size of this pic ya? Haven't got the original file from Bulat)



Comic Strip of the Day

My Confession 2 YOU ♥♥♥

*Yawn* *Blink Blink Mah Eyes* *Sigh*

Waking up in the morning on valentine day knowing that you didn't have the one for you yet could be quite .... emmm .... empty?

I sms-ed her Happy V-Day last night and she wishes me back in return. That is enough to make me happy, it is nothing much; but its more than enough for me at the current moment ♥

When I saw her sms this morning, it makes me feel like telling her how much I miss her, want her and love her; but that would make her feel uncomfy. Therefore, I've decided to make my confession here, on my blog (hoping she would read it) *pray*

Dear "YOU",

I know why I fall for you but I did not know why I fall so hard on you,
I don't know if this is love, or it was just a crush, but I know that you are a girl who I would want to spend my life with,
I want you to know that I miss you loads, wanting to have you in my life and given a chance to show you my love.

You told me you have other plan today when I asked you if i could be your date on v-day, if its a date then I wish you a great v-day date,
If the person you are going out with is a person you love, I hope he would feel the same way too,
I might not know you well enough but you seems to still live in the past that leave a scar in your life,
I would be more than happy if you could fall in love again, even if the lucky guy is not me :) (I wish it was me thou :P)
And I hope that lucky guy would know how lucky he is and appreciate you the way I would.

To "YOU", I want you to know that I love you, Je t'aime, Ti Amo, Sarang haeyo, Aishiteru and the list goes on.

Comic Strip of the day

Quote of the day

Love is just a word until you meet someone that gives it a meaning ♥

Finally, I shall end this entry with my favourite song MV :) ♥

Love & Memories ♥♥♥

Markus Chung Yau Ng .... Who is this fella?

I don't know him, I've never met him, I've never even heard about his name before and to tell you frankly, i don't think I even bother who he is UNTIL the day that he left ...

Markus Chung Yau Ng OR also known as Markus Ng born in year 1985 and passed away suddenly in his sleep on February 04, 2009 at the age of 23.

Why would I write about this guy when I don't even know him?

The answer is simple, after bumping into few blogs that wrote about him; it leads me to his memorial site - http://markusng.memory-of.com/. That triggered my curiousity of what is so great about this young guy. I start reading up on what his friends said about him on their blogs; and also the memorial site tributed to him, I've then realized that he is a special person who touches the heart of those who know him OR those who didn't know him, such as myself.

Markus' story reminded me of a friend of mine which shared the same fate, Alfred Alfie. If I am not mistaken, he past away back in 2005. He is a very nice guy and well loved by all his friend. Bro, I am sorry I could not make it to your funeral but you are always in my mind, I hope you are doing well up there. Just FYI, things would never be the same after you've left. For Markus and Alfie, may both of you rest in peace, you are always in our heart and we will always remember you.

To Markus' friends, relatives etc, my great condolense to the big lost, I feel you :) I am sure all of us wish he is still alive right?

Sometimes I find it "funny" that god just have to take all these good people back in his arm instead of all those bad people who ruined people's life such as robbers, thiefs, rapist etc.

No matter what it is, this story has ensured me that "life is short", the only thing that stay on once you left is only memories. How you want to be remembered, it is all on your doing.

This is my 24th post on this blog (23th day blogging), after all the sharing that I've made and story about Markus, I've made up my mind that I would blog to share my thought on why i think that "life is good" and "love is beautiful". Blog traffics is no longer my concern, my main purpose on this blog now is to shared as much thought I had in life that might benefit/change the life of others to a better life.

Only a life lived for others is a life worthwhile. - Albert Einstein.

If you like/dislike the direction of my blog,
If you like/dislike what I posted,
Please leave your opinion/feedback in my comment box for further sharing.

If you wish to share your story with others and you think it deserve its own post, do feel free to email me at Ahboochak@gmail.com. If i find it worth sharing, I will post it up k? ♥

Valentine Day is 2 days away, advice for those who failed to get a date on that day,

STOP WHINING and COMPLAINING, perhaps your time has not come. So, maybe you should take this opportunity to spend time with your single friends. Friendship love is also love you know?

Be a good boy and good girl, listen to Ahboochak and take the chance on this valentine to tell the people you love that you love them right? :)

At least I've tried ♥♥♥

This post is like the sequel post for yesterday,

I am sure a lot of people would say,

Joey, it is easier to say than done.
Joey, it is easy for you to say.
Joey, the girl don't like me. How?
Joey, this ... and Joey, that.

First and foremost, nobody said it is gonna be easy right?

Let me share with you what I've did for the girl that I currently fall head over heels :)

I've met her in an event on Dec 10, 2008. It wasn't love at first sight, when I first saw her, I thought that she is a very cute looking girl and her smile is one of the prettiest smile I've seen my whole life.

I then got to know more about her through MSN Chat. She is no doubt a very nice girl that her life was ruined by a bad relationship and thought she will never love again.

The 2nd time I met her was on 18 dec 2008, We catched a movie about the forbidden love between a vampire and human, The Twilight. During the show, I took a quick look at her a few times during the movie. Her smile would definitely melt any guys who looks at it. It is so sad that such an angel like her is afraid with this beautiful thing called love.

After the movie, I realized I just could not take my mind off of her. I sms-ed and called her but the respond weren't good. So, I thought she needed some space in her life and don't wish anyone to come near her broken heart. Therefore, I've decided to give her a christmas present (as it is just around the corner)

I bought a snow globe, I bought an x'mas greeting cards, some A4 colored papers and other stationary needed for the gift I thought that it would show my sincerity. I drafted what I am gonna do and thanks to my smart idea, I end up spending 5 hrs of my life working on the customized greeting card. Anyway, i guess the 5 hrs are all worth it, at least i know that I've spent this 5 hrs doing something I've never did before to someone I had a hard crush on.

This is the quick look of my 5 hrs hardwork :P
(Click on the image for a larger version)

I gave her the gift on christmas as planned but I guess things doesn't goes as what I plan. Instead of getting a better treatment from her, I think the whole thing backfired backed at me. She treated me even colder. Well, I can't blame her. At least she is trying to be nice by rejecting me indrectly.

I tried talking to her on MSN,
I tried sms-ing her but there isn't any reply.

Jan 30, 2009 is the day I sent her my last SMS asking her if I could be her date for valentine day and she replied my that specific sms today (Feb 1, 2009) saying that she has a plan on v-day :(

Many of my friends are asking me to give up as they said "feeling can't be force, if she doesn't have a feeling for you, no matter what you did, she will never feel the same".

BUT what about those who really have fate and hopes that she/he will feel the same way one day?

Those that cross the sea and walk across the fire for the love that they dreamt for?

Those that they believed in it so much, they waited for 7 years to have them accepting them into their life? Was it miracles? Was it all because of hardwork? I guess nobody know except the god almighty :)

So, what do you believe?

1. Love can't be force. No matter what you do, things will never change

OR

2. If you showed enough sincerity, have enough faith, you'll be able to change the fate.

My answer for it is, I believe that if we put enough hardwork + spent enough time to show my sincerity. I "STILL" stand a chance to bring the fate on my side. Well, if things doesn't work out, I still get to say "At least, I've tried my best" :)

Words of the Day

For every failure, there's an alternative course of action.
You just have to find it.
When you come to a roadblock, take a detour.

Mary Kay Ash

I've written a lot for today. So, I will just end this post with this famous question that my friends always ask me, "Joey, what is love ?"

Look into the video below to find out my answer.

So, if you have the same philosophy as me that LOVE is LIFE. Just work for the LOVE you believe coz what is LIFE without LOVE aight? ♥ :)

LOVe Potion No. 9 ♥♥♥

Ah-boo-chak !!! :D

Hows your reunion dinner? Was it great? Mine was awesome !!! Its awesome not because of the food but it was because all the family members are together, sitting on the same table and spending time together. I guess this is CNY reunion dinner main objective :D

Have you watched Petronas' Chinese New Year 2009 advert? If not, here it goes ♥

I saw this advert when I visited Bulat / Estee's house for "pai lin". After the advert finished, she said "Joey, why the advert so sad 1? Its Chinese New Year, they are not suppose to make people feel sad. It is suppose to be something HAPPY".

After hearing that statement, it got me thinking for a few seconds.

I then answered her question by saying,

Well, the reason why they makes such advertisement was because people don't appreaciate what they have. They only learn how to appreciate it once they lost it.

Seriously, the truth is hurting. A lot of people tend to make mistake and not appreciating what they have until they lost it. Once they've lost it, they tend to feel regret of what happened. I've learnt this lesson the hard way myself.

I hate to admit this, but I think I am having a mind block now. A mind block of being afraid to lose something precious in my life due to my unappreciative attitude. Therefore, I've tried to appreciate what I have more than in the past.

I've known some people who never spend time with their love ones, even on this CNY. So, please take a short moment to think if what you are doing is right or wrong.

Life is SHORT. When its TOO LATE, Sorry is NOT enough.

Keep LOVe in Your heart. A life without it is like a sunless gardens where the flowers are dead. :)

Click on the picture to see an enlarged version this pic.

I L♥Ve YOU

Chak chak chak ... cha-cha-cha CHAK !!! Baby language I am using :D

I think 2007 and 2008 is 2 years that I've learn the most in my whole life, 2008 especially. I've experienced a lot of things, attended lotsa events, met a lot of new interesting people and friends. I personally changed a lot within this 2 years to. I guess this is what they said as - every single single day of our life is like a blank page in our diary, every person we meet, every event we participate in is a lively essay.

I plan to blog about every events that happen in my daily life, especially in 2008. I've also plan to write about friends & people who've colored up my life, you guys are such a wonderful people that each time i thought about my last day on earth freaked me out terribly. I pray each day that I will live long enough to show how much I care and appreciated all the friendship that is given to me.


I can't name everyone of you in this post as I don't know when the list will come to an end BUT i promise, I will try my best to write about each and everyone of you when the times come k? :)

Thank you to all the friends in Kokorobox.Net

And some other friends that is not from Kokorobox.Net :)


Shaz, Janice, Rocky, Curry Egg, Joann, Christopher, Kylie, Joveena, Kevin Chong, Brian Soong, Bryan Lim, Debbie, Agnes Lee, Zoe Vye, Uncle Reon, Mel, Singdy, Banz, Wolves a.k.a Jackson, Britnese, Chen & #m'siaperth gang, Karen, Resh, H-Factor Support Team Members, LYNetters, LNT members, Single Club's member, everyone in Cal-Lab, the Shouters and others that I've not mention or post up their pic in this post. I would like to apologizes to all of you as I can't find a nice group photo of all of us together and even if I have some okie picture of all of us in it, I can't chuck everything in just one post. Sorry ya? Don't marah at me k?

Thank you for the friendship and love that all of you is given me. I appreciate it very much. All of you had taught me the true meaning of love ♥ I am now living as if I were to die tomorrow and learn as if I am living forever.

~ I L♥Ve ALL OF YOU & FRIENDS FOREVER ~

For those who've read this post, please leave your comment so I know that you've read about it. Thanks ~♥

3rd Post - Time Travel ♥♥♥

My 3rd Post in Ahboochak.Blogspot.com :)

What should I talk about leh? I find it so difficult on what to blog as I got so much to tell / share with my readers and too much reading materials are kinda boring.

As promised, I am reveal my unseen picture in anywhere else HERE.

After looking into my hard disk, I've realized that I only have a picture of me when I am in my primary school and I can't remember where did i keep all the hard copies of my primary school's pictures -_-'

Without further ado, I shall now present you the picture of me when I am in my primary school. I can't remember when this picture is taken but it is definitely before PMR (approx 14 to 16 yrs old mia pic)

From left to right: Carlyle, Myself, Chan Kah Leong
At the back: Gopirajan (ain't that obvious ?)
My close friends back then.

My pic back in the day I am in College ( 2000 )


From left to right: Abdul Qahar, Kean Jin, Myself and Nidzam
My close friends back in College.

And finally, a pic taken last year ( 2008 )

From left to right: Myself, Joveena Francis (Starbucks Barista), Kevin Chong (NTV7 Big Breakfast Show - then) and DJ Shaz (X-FM 103.0 - AMP Radio Network's Jam-X - On air from 3PM to 8PM)
Some of my current close friends.

Before I end this post, please ... please ... please give me some feedbacks on what you would like to hear about me more. My perspection about life / love / friendship? My teenagers life? About myself? My relationships etc. I will try my best to cater to your request.

Word of wisdoms for 22/1/2009 - The journey of a thousand miles begins with one first step :)

2nd post - WHY did I blog? ♥♥♥

Peek-ah-BOO !!! (that is how you say Ah-boo-chak in western way, thanks to lovely zoe for the reminder about the existance of this term)

I've known about blog since before the blog frenzy even started. The first time I heard about blogging was like, almost 5 years ago I assume?

So, what trigger me start my own blog now you may ask?

1. TIME Factor

Well, the main reason that I didn't blog in the past was because I am too busy with my daily activities (such as work & hanging out with friends) and also managing my forum - www.kokorobox.net. Hence, I can't really find a time to blog.

Anyhow, I've quitted my job as a Field Service Executive / Reseller Assistant in Cal-Lab (www.cal-lab.com) and currently self-employed. Therefore, I am able to squeeze some time to blog about 3 most magical elements in my life ( Love ♥ Friendship ♥ Memories )

I will start blogging more about these magical elements starting February 2009 and how it effect my daily life, my personality and also my character.

2. PRIVACY Factor

I am always the private type of person and I hate the feeling of being stalked :P

Its 2009, my mind told me to make something different. So, I am now giving all those who want to stalk me a chance to do so !!!

You can take a look at some of the things I've did on 2008 at my one of my bestest buddy blog at
http://shazfx.blogspot.com/ OR at http://shaz.blog.xfresh.com/

I am gonna try my best to blog everyday. So, for those who really want to stalk. Make sure you read-up my ahboochak blog daily ya? ;)

Ahboochak Blog's Menu for Jan 2009 will mostly feature about my life in my primary school and secondary school in Kelantan. I will post up some pictures and stories that even my bestest buddies never heard about it before.

Picture taken last Friday, 16/1/2009 at a park in Tmn Tun.
Picture courtesy to my cutest photographer and also the leader / founder for the BoDo-ism Gang - Ms Bulat a.k.a Estee

Thank you for viewing. Adios and Have a GREAT DAY ~!

With Love,
Joey a.k.a Vinspire a.k.a Ahboochak ♥

First post ♥♥♥

Hola people,

Finally, I've jumped into the blogosphere bandwagon :)

Okie, a little introduction for those who don't know me, don't know much about me and also for those who know me :D

I am Joey Tong, also known as Vinspire and just because I can't have Vinspire.blogspot.com as my blog URL, I have to settle down with Ahboochak.blogspot.com :D !!!

I am born on 11th July 1982. So, that makes me 27 yrs old this coming July 11, 2009. Oh boy, I am more than 26 yrs old item now ^o^

Here is a pic of me when I am baby. Cute leh? Say cute, or else i bite you one ark :p

Another picture of me (for those who don't believe that I am this cute) 8-)

Now who knows what is the meaning of Ahboochak?

1st guess,

2nd guess,

3rd guess,

Did you get it right?

Or did you get it wrong?

Anyway, I shall now explain the meaning of Ahboochak. I am sure most of you like babies aight? and for those who are born in the 80s, you should know about this simple trick to make babies smile / laugh where-by you close your face with both your hands and you say AH-BOO-CHAK and TA-DA !!! You show your face to the baby and miraculously, 8 out of 10 times, the baby smiles :D

Wee ... Nothing beat seeing a sweet smile, especially sweet fresh pure smiley from babies. It makes all the guys' heart goes warm and it melts all the girls' heart.

So, lets say ... AH-BOO-CHAK together with me YO !!! ^o^


Picture taken last Sunday, 18/1/2009 at KL PAC Open Day, Sentul.