I've made my CNY wish on CNY's eve,
I've talked a bit about angpau on the 1st day of CNY,
And I've touched about family reunion on the 2nd day.
So, I will touch about "Happyness" in this post. What is Chinese New Year without Happyness aight? ^_^
After posting up the video yesterday, it has made me realized that there is a group of people that don't watch TV. Hence, I've decided to put Astro Chinese New Year 2009 Song: Fa Da Chai in this post.
And what is Chinese New Year without firework aight? So, here you go !!! :D
Finally, for those who is looking forward to lead a happier life this year. I've got some a reminder from Barbara on 10 ways to live a happy life.
No. 1: Accept what is
The number 1 cause of suffering and unhappiness is wanting life to be something it’s not.
No. 2: Want what you have
The number 2 cause of suffering and unhappiness is wanting what you don’t have.
No. 3: Be honest with yourself
The number 3 cause of suffering and unhappiness is not communicating honestly with yourself.
No. 4: Investigate your stories
The number 4 cause of suffering and unhappiness are the scary stories you tell yourself about life and the world.
No. 5: Mind your own business
The number 5 cause of suffering and unhappiness is minding other people’s business.
No. 6: Follow your passion and accept the consequences
The number 6 cause of suffering and unhappiness is not doing what you want because you think people will disapprove
No. 7: Do the right thing and accept the consequences
The number 7 cause of suffering and unhappiness is not doing the right thing because you’re afraid of the consequences.
No. 8: Deal with what is in front of you and forget the rest
The number 8 cause of suffering and unhappiness is shadowboxing with illusions instead of dealing with the reality in front of you.
No. 9: Know what is what
The number 9 cause of suffering and unhappiness is wanting absolute satisfaction from relative experiences.
No. 10: Learn to see beyond impermanence
The number 10 cause of suffering and unhappiness is believing we become nothing.
Finally, again ... I would like to wish all my readers a VERY HAPPY Chinese New Year. May the year leads you to the path of Good Fortune, Health and Happyness ♥
2 comments:
gong xi fa cai bro..
my angpao mana?
heheheh
hmm.. dunt agree with all the reminder...
No. 1: Accept what is
agree..
No. 2: Want what you have
dunt agree.. then we have no meaning of life or target.. we should want something that we can work and achieve.. and move forward in life.. must have goal and target that is reasonable to achieve.. and then set higher and higher goals as we achieve them :X
No. 3: Be honest with yourself
sorta agree....
No. 4: Investigate your stories
dunt agree...
No. 5: Mind your own business
dunt agree again.. we dunt live on an island.. its not possible not to care abt others.. caring is also part of happiness :X
No. 6: Follow your passion and accept the consequences
partly agree... but also need to add in being rational... lol.. but we should do more stuff that we like rather than what we dunt like..
No. 7: Do the right thing and accept the consequences
same as No.6. we wont do it if we dunt think its right in the first place.. lol.. i would say be rational.. and do let yourself go once in a while and be crazy.. good for mind relaxation i guess.. lol...
No. 8: Deal with what is in front of you and forget the rest
agreed... deal with the problems as soon as possible.. but dunt forget the rest.. prioritize and fix as it happens.. dunt delay coz a problem will still be there if you delay :X
No. 9: Know what is what
in other words.. be realistic.. same as No.2, which is be realistic in making goals and targets to achieve... and be rational... be satisfied with what you have.. appreciate what you have.. and look forward to achieve something more to be appreciated.. lol...
No. 10: Learn to see beyond impermanence
dunno what it actually means but if its what i think it is.. i dunt agree.. lol..
Wolfy's reminder of happiness... be happy... be contented... appreciate stuff.. and frens alike.. do what you can to make your day a better day.. and also try to make other ppl's day better.. within your limit of coz.. try leave any place in a better condition than when you first arrive.. respect others and do onto others what you want others to do onto you.. sleep more.. smile more.. joke more.. read more jokes.. its ok to be a clown :) for wolves, buayas and guys.. chase after more beautiful gals :X see more also can.. lol.. for gals... i dunno coz i am not gal.. maybe flirt more with guys? oh.. be optimistic a bit.. it wont hurt ya.. wake up and get a headstart by being optimistic.. your day will turn better :X lots more.. cant think liao.. lol... and i talk too much :X
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